Geeze, it sounds like LM had the same morticians as my grandmothers. FYI, viewings can occur even for cremations. It's part of the healing process for some and cynical me thinks it adds $$$ to the cost of the funeral. Like the silk lining for their comfort.
She told me she wishes she'd believed me [rant redacted] It's not your fault. You did all you could and if she was so wilfully blind and deaf to the person who lived in the house - I hope it eats at her for the rest of her days. AND THE FUCKING GALL OF ASKING YOU TO TAKE CARE OF HER DAD BECAUSE SHE ULTIMATELY CAN'T BE ARSED TO. IF IT'S TOO HARD &/OR DANGEROUS TO HAVE HIM LIVE ALONE, FIND A SUITABLE NURSING HOME/HOSTEL/UNIT WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE TRAINED TO LOOK AFTER & CARE FOR THE ELDERLY. How you didn't punch her in the face is beyond me.
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on 2012-09-13 06:37 am (UTC)She told me she wishes she'd believed me
[rant redacted] It's not your fault. You did all you could and if she was so wilfully blind and deaf to the person who lived in the house - I hope it eats at her for the rest of her days. AND THE FUCKING GALL OF ASKING YOU TO TAKE CARE OF HER DAD BECAUSE SHE ULTIMATELY CAN'T BE ARSED TO. IF IT'S TOO HARD &/OR DANGEROUS TO HAVE HIM LIVE ALONE, FIND A SUITABLE NURSING HOME/HOSTEL/UNIT WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE TRAINED TO LOOK AFTER & CARE FOR THE ELDERLY. How you didn't punch her in the face is beyond me.
LIBRARY! LIBRARY! LIBRARY! That sounds awesome :D